Category Archives: summer

The Birds and the Boys

This morning the peonies are blooming and the birds are chirping and those @#$ squirrels are eating my birdseed again.  Overgrown rats, that’s what they are.

Moving on from the squirrels…there are many other enjoyable aspects of being an early bird today.  No, it’s not my nature to be up and at ‘em like this—you know I like to milk the morning for all I can—but today I’m here, tea in hand, listening to the outside world.  As always happens on mornings like this, I’m surprised by the volume of sound  the birds and frogs and other creatures out there produce.  They’re small, but not silent.  Amidst the daily cacophony of football and capture the flag, these sounds are drowned out, and it’s lovely, just now, to sit and listen to them in their loud glory.

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Yesterday morning, the boys rode their bikes to the library while I got organized.  They returned, books secured, and, still on bikes, we headed to the Farmer’s Market.  The boys headed straight for the bakery stall – the cinnamon rolls were calling them.  Then we bought what turned out to be the best strawberries I’ve had in years.  It makes me want to move to a tropical climate, where fresh fruit can be in season, locally, all year long.  Think that will happen?  Yeah, me neither. 

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As the boys played at the beach the other day, I had such a sense of their similarities and differences.  I watched them brave the cold water (68°), one tiptoeing, one running full on, one torn between the two.  I watched them splash and dive and laugh.  And later, when they’d had their fill, they quietly went their own ways.  One settled down with a warm towel and a book; another stayed in the water, challenging himself, as always, to brave more; the third dug with the little metal shovel for hours, hours!, until he completed his lengthy river through the sand.  I love these moments:  boys together, boys alone, everyone content.  They come too infrequently for me, never often enough, and they remind me of the pure joy of raising these boys.

Anticipating Summer

Is it Friday yet?

Because, really, I’m all done with this week.  
I’m done with homework on warm, sunny nights.
I’m done with book fairs and PTO meetings and classroom parties.
I’m done with piano practice and soccer practice and lacrosse practice.


I’m done.
It’s time to change things up, and I’m ready for the change.
I’m ready for sand and sun and drinks by the firepit.


I’m ready for no practice and no practice, and hey!, no practice.
I’m ready friends and laughs and relaxed mornings.
Is it Friday yet?  
I’m ready.  Are you?

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My Favorite Flip Flops

I can’t be sure, but I suspect it was my southern upbringing that completely ruined me for shoes.  I’d rather not wear them.  Yes, that’s right.  I still don’t want to wear them, Mom. I understand that I’m a grown-up, that I’m a responsible mother of 3, but I’d prefer to be barefoot any day of the week.  Since that’s not entirely socially acceptable, my next choice is sandals, my casual fave being flip-flops, of course.

Since the season of open toes is finally upon us, I thought I’d share some of my faves.

El numero uno, the #1 best flip-flop EVA, the one I that I absolutely love–and the one that carries an absolutely ridiculous pricetag–is the timeless Jack Roger.  I have eked years of wear out of a black monogrammed pair like the one above, and this snazzy pink pair.  I will almost always accept your summer party invitation if I can come barefoot or in my Jack Rogers.

Other days, when I’m heading for the pool or beach, I like something more casual.  But fun.  Always fun.  It’s summertime, so forget about function.
How about these cuties, from LL Bean for only $19.95?
I defy anyone to tell me that pink flip flops with green lobsters don’t rock.  La-la-la, I can’t hear you.  I loooove these.
Or check out these starfish sweeties from J. Crew for a sweet $26.50.

And we can’t forget our faithful friend Target, who comes through for us with the most reasonably priced flip flops in the world.  At $9.99, they’re practically FREE!   
So there you have it.  A few fun choices with about a million more I’d post if I had time.  Here’s a hint:  pink, green, blue, red, whales, lobsters, plaids and monograms:  I’ll take a pair, thanks. 
But I’d still rather be barefoot.