Category Archives: Midwest Parents

My Coaching Surprise

When I first started playing basketball, I was in about the 4th or 5th grade and I wasn’t very good.  The teams were co-ed, then, and I spent more time thinking about my freckled, red-headed teammate Mike Fayard than listening to what the coach had to say.  It was, as my father has often said, more of a social event for me.
Several years passed before I showed much promise.  I think I was quick and fairly athletic, so they kept me around.  Eventually things began to sink in.
I’d forgotten this.  I’d forgotten how hard it was to learn this game.  I’ve played for so many years now that these concepts seem obvious.  Cut to the basket.  Come to the ball.  Pick and roll.  ROLL, people, ROLL.
I know, those words don’t mean anything to most of you but trust me, they’re fundamental parts of the game.  If your child ends up on a basketball team, these are things she or he will learn.
In all these years, I have played and practiced and cheered but I haven’t coached until now.


To find out  how hard it is, and why I do it anyway, see my post over at Midwest Parents today.  I’ll be posting there every day this week.  Be sure to stop by and say hello!

My Son Won’t Put Down The Remote

This lament isn’t uncommon among parents, and I’m always a tiny bit baffled by it.  After all, we control the remote, right?  Our kids can’t use it without our permission, overt or other.

Ten years ago, we removed the television from our family room area.  We still don’t have one on the main floor of our house.  Horrors, I know!  We are crazy, Amish-like even, right?  

Except, no.  Our kids love American Idol and crack up over Simon’s outbursts.  They watch football on weekends and see just about every stinking movie that’s made.

I don’t have a problem with watching TV.  In fact, I enjoy it.  (For the record, we have two.)  But the reality is that TV takes time.  It’s time my kids aren’t building Legos or playing outside or reading a book.  It’s time I’m not reading a book, for that matter. 

Parents ask me quite often how we manage without a daily diet of PBS and Nickelodeon.  The answer is simple.  Truly.  My kids don’t know any different.  

To find out more, and for tips on how to control your kids diet of television, see my post over at Midwest Parents – I’m there all week!